October 24, 2014

Wedding | Texas & Tulsa

This fall we traveled west to Tulsa, OK for one of Jeremy’s childhood friends wedding. Since we were only going to be a few hours from Dallas, we flew there first to see BFF Karen & her hubby Paul. They picked us up from the airport and we headed out to Southfork to sight see…. too bad it was pouring, so we opted to skip the tour and went out to lunch and check in our hotel, NYLO Plano. We tend to pick boutique hotels from places like Groupon & RueLaLa to avoid the monotony of chain hotels. Last time we stayed in La Meridian Stoneleigh and the Adolphus… both far from boring… just as NYLO proved to be as well. With it’s minimal interior and frosted shower…. we were glad we were all close friends, because the bathroom provided minimal privacy (which I suppose fit the rest of the room’s aesthetic) …. bottom line, the hotel was very cool, but don’t pile into one room with a bunch of people! That night we attended a Rangers baseball game, and the next morning we were off to get a rental car and drive to Tulsa. Al & Jenna’s wedding was at the Tulsa Historical Society, a crazy beautiful building and garden. We pulled up to the wedding and realized I’d left my camera in our hotel room!! So, the next morning we drove back over so I could take a few photos, it was so pretty. We hit Tallgrass for brunch (OMG, so good!!!) and then boarded our plane home. A quick trip, but a great one! While we were out there, one of my friends also tied the knot back here in NC. I hated we had already committed to go to Tulsa and had to miss their wedding on the same day… so I photographed their beautiful invitation!! I asked Kristin who did them, and she said she did!!! Aren’t they gorgeous!? *REMINDER* I’m still hoping to shoot in the Waco/Dallas/Austin area in 2015!    
October 22, 2014

Wedding | Autumn & Kyle

This fall has brought a fury of weddings…. that we get to attend! At the end of the summer, I was able to photograph Autumn’s bridals at the stunning Merrimon-Wynne House in Raleigh, NC. I could not wait to go back for her wedding in the fall! 35mm Portra 160
October 9, 2014

Why the sky isn’t blue

I’ve run into this conversation multiple times since I started shooting, and have finally realized it’s something I (and many photographers) should address with clients. We try so had to manage expectations, deliver a product clients love, and give them a good experience. Several years ago I was hired by another photographer to help shoot a giant family session at their lake-front mansion. The shoot was slated for 11AM during a hot, blue-sky day. I was hired because my style was very close to the hired photographer’s style. We shot the session, had a good time and left. She delivered the gallery to the matriarch and the matriarch was livid. Livid that the sky was white in the photos, and not the blue that we all could clearly see that day. The poor photographer thought she’d done a good job, and delivered a product as she advertised on her website… but lawyers got involved, I think she refunded all the money she’d been paid, plus was out what she paid me (and 2 others that were hired). Did the client have a right to be mad? While I do think she acted a little crazy, I can’t really blame her for being upset. She expected something that she did not receive. A similar conversation came about last week when a photographer posted a beautiful images of a couple in-front of a stunning backdrop. The couple was properly exposed, but the background a little washed out. He was upset that the client questioned why the sky wasn’t blue in his image when it was in the iPhone snapshot she had from the same moment ….never-mind the client’s in the iPhone photo were nearly black and unrecognizable in that image… but the sky looked nice! OK, why am I telling you this? Cameras do not “see” the same as our eyes! Our eyes have a very high dynamic range and can pick up highlights and shadows all at once, cameras cannot do that alone. Cameras work a little more like when you go from a dark movie theater to outdoors on a bright day…. your eyes had adjusted to the dark of the theater, and then all the sudden needed to see all the detail in the highlights…. you can’t do both simultaneously. Camera’s only work that way, they have to pick the bright or the dark, not both. Many wedding and portrait photographers bill themselves as “natural light photographers”…. and the average person doesn’t really know what that means. It means that they utilize the available light, preferably daylight. This usually means that if they’re shooting outdoors, where it’s bright, they don’t normally use external lighting. If you are not using external lighting it will effect how and where you place your clients within that available light…. normally it means your subject will be in the shadow or shade that light is creating…. which means your camera is going to pick the “dark” to look good… not the bright. The bright just became somewhat unimportant to your photo…. and if you’re outside, that means the sky just turned white. Here’s an example of images shot moments apart and all I did was a 180 degree turn to switch between the dunes and the water. The sun hitting their backs in both instances, but my position to them has changed. On the left: See how their shadows fall in front of them? That means the side of them facing me is in the shade/shadow, or the “dark” and I picked dark for the camera to read, not the bright…. so, the sky is almost white. On the right, I chose the reverse, and let the camera read the “bright” because my subjects were being hit with the sunlight.  Their shadows are in front of them, which makes them lit with the same intensity as the sky…. so the sky is blue! Have I thoroughly confused you yet?! So, don’t be alarmed when your sky isn’t blue. It doesn’t mean your photographer did a bad job.  It just means that the way they choose to shoot will likely have you look the most flattering possible with the available light they’re using! I prefer to not lug lighting around when I’m shooting, it’s a personal preference… so you’ll get white skies in some of your images… but that means the light on you, will look good 🙂 Want to learn more about photography? I’m glad to offer one on one sessions with you!  
September 4, 2014

Wedding | Guest

This fall we have had an interesting thing happen…. we’ve been invited to attend FIVE weddings. Part of me is really sad I won’t get to photograph these events (but you know I’ll have a camera… I cannot resist!) but part of me is freaking thrilled to kick off my photographer hat, throw on a party dress (already bought 2 new ones!) and a pair of heels, drink champagne and have a blast! These weddings kick off this weekend in Raleigh at my little cousin’s wedding. I shot her bridal portrait and cannot wait to see it on display at the reception! Next weekend we are hopping a plane to Tulsa, Oklahoma and witnessing one of Jeremy’s childhood friends marry his sweetheart….. Then the fete’s keep rolling through the fall. A few tips on being a gracious wedding guest: 1. RESPOND TO  YOUR FREAKIN’ RSVP. This is so annoying to track down people you invited to see if they are attending. The postage is pre-paid, so mail the stupid thing back! 2. Check the envelope to see who exactly is invited. If you are a parent, but your children’s names do not appear on the envelope, they are not invited. Don’t be sour about it, instead take it as a great opportunity to have a night out, alone with your hunny. 3. Wear appropriate clothing. It never fails that I show up to photograph a wedding and there she is… the girl in the ill fitting dress… it’s always too short, too low-cut, or too tight. There’s usually a girl in the wrong shoes too… if it’s an outdoor ceremony, take note… and don’t wear your best spike heels. Wedges or chunky heels will be your friend in grass. And for the love of all things appropriate… don’t wear a white dress! You’d be alarmed at how many times I see someone in white that isn’t the bride! If you insist on wearing shoes that will be uncomfortable, bring a pair of flip flops in your purse. Too many times I see glasses get dropped on the dance floor, and girls have to put those painful shoes back on that they kicked off post cake-cutting. 4. Don’t linger around during family formal photos. As a photographer, we really don’t mind if you snap a photo or two, but please don’t stall everyone’s least favorite part of the day by duplicating every shot we take. Remember, there are usually cocktails you are missing, and you are prolonging the bridal party from getting one too! 5. Don’t take an iPad to a wedding. Ever. (unless it’s to keep your child entertained during quiet times, like the ceremony….. and if you must take it, NEVER lift it over your head during the ceremony or out in the aisle to take a photo with it….  you look like a complete fool) 6. Arrive to the ceremony early. It’s customary to arrive 15-30 minutes early…. don’t get caught running into the ceremony as the bride and her dad are trying to get set to walk down the aisle. It’s awkward. 7. Give a gift. Even if you cannot attend, it’s appropriate that you give a gift. If it’s something you think the couple should take on their honeymoon, you may want to gift it early so they know to open it before they leave. We got lucky and had a day between our wedding and honeymoon, we used that time to open our gifts and there were several Visa/AmEx gift cards we took on our trip. It is proper etiquette to actually send the gift to the couple’s home instead of bringing it to the wedding, but I think it’s OK to do either.   Have fun!    
October 24, 2014

Wedding | Texas & Tulsa

This fall we traveled west to Tulsa, OK for one of Jeremy’s childhood friends wedding. Since we were only going to be a few hours from Dallas, we flew there first to see BFF Karen & her hubby Paul. They picked us up from the airport and we headed out to Southfork to sight see…. too bad it was pouring, so we opted to skip the tour and went out to lunch and check in our hotel, NYLO Plano. We tend to pick boutique hotels from places like Groupon & RueLaLa to avoid the monotony of chain hotels. Last time we stayed in La Meridian Stoneleigh and the Adolphus… both far from boring… just as NYLO proved to be as well. With it’s minimal interior and frosted shower…. we were glad we were all close friends, because the bathroom provided minimal privacy (which I suppose fit the rest of the room’s aesthetic) …. bottom line, the hotel was very cool, but don’t pile into one room with a bunch of people! That night we attended a Rangers baseball game, and the next morning we were off to get a rental car and drive to Tulsa. Al & Jenna’s wedding was at the Tulsa Historical Society, a crazy beautiful building and garden. We pulled up to the wedding and realized I’d left my camera in our hotel room!! So, the next morning we drove back over so I could take a few photos, it was so pretty. We hit Tallgrass for brunch (OMG, so good!!!) and then boarded our plane home. A quick trip, but a great one! While we were out there, one of my friends also tied the knot back here in NC. I hated we had already committed to go to Tulsa and had to miss their wedding on the same day… so I photographed their beautiful invitation!! I asked Kristin who did them, and she said she did!!! Aren’t they gorgeous!? *REMINDER* I’m still hoping to shoot in the Waco/Dallas/Austin area in 2015!    
October 22, 2014

Wedding | Autumn & Kyle

This fall has brought a fury of weddings…. that we get to attend! At the end of the summer, I was able to photograph Autumn’s bridals at the stunning Merrimon-Wynne House in Raleigh, NC. I could not wait to go back for her wedding in the fall! 35mm Portra 160
October 9, 2014

Why the sky isn’t blue

I’ve run into this conversation multiple times since I started shooting, and have finally realized it’s something I (and many photographers) should address with clients. We try so had to manage expectations, deliver a product clients love, and give them a good experience. Several years ago I was hired by another photographer to help shoot a giant family session at their lake-front mansion. The shoot was slated for 11AM during a hot, blue-sky day. I was hired because my style was very close to the hired photographer’s style. We shot the session, had a good time and left. She delivered the gallery to the matriarch and the matriarch was livid. Livid that the sky was white in the photos, and not the blue that we all could clearly see that day. The poor photographer thought she’d done a good job, and delivered a product as she advertised on her website… but lawyers got involved, I think she refunded all the money she’d been paid, plus was out what she paid me (and 2 others that were hired). Did the client have a right to be mad? While I do think she acted a little crazy, I can’t really blame her for being upset. She expected something that she did not receive. A similar conversation came about last week when a photographer posted a beautiful images of a couple in-front of a stunning backdrop. The couple was properly exposed, but the background a little washed out. He was upset that the client questioned why the sky wasn’t blue in his image when it was in the iPhone snapshot she had from the same moment ….never-mind the client’s in the iPhone photo were nearly black and unrecognizable in that image… but the sky looked nice! OK, why am I telling you this? Cameras do not “see” the same as our eyes! Our eyes have a very high dynamic range and can pick up highlights and shadows all at once, cameras cannot do that alone. Cameras work a little more like when you go from a dark movie theater to outdoors on a bright day…. your eyes had adjusted to the dark of the theater, and then all the sudden needed to see all the detail in the highlights…. you can’t do both simultaneously. Camera’s only work that way, they have to pick the bright or the dark, not both. Many wedding and portrait photographers bill themselves as “natural light photographers”…. and the average person doesn’t really know what that means. It means that they utilize the available light, preferably daylight. This usually means that if they’re shooting outdoors, where it’s bright, they don’t normally use external lighting. If you are not using external lighting it will effect how and where you place your clients within that available light…. normally it means your subject will be in the shadow or shade that light is creating…. which means your camera is going to pick the “dark” to look good… not the bright. The bright just became somewhat unimportant to your photo…. and if you’re outside, that means the sky just turned white. Here’s an example of images shot moments apart and all I did was a 180 degree turn to switch between the dunes and the water. The sun hitting their backs in both instances, but my position to them has changed. On the left: See how their shadows fall in front of them? That means the side of them facing me is in the shade/shadow, or the “dark” and I picked dark for the camera to read, not the bright…. so, the sky is almost white. On the right, I chose the reverse, and let the camera read the “bright” because my subjects were being hit with the sunlight.  Their shadows are in front of them, which makes them lit with the same intensity as the sky…. so the sky is blue! Have I thoroughly confused you yet?! So, don’t be alarmed when your sky isn’t blue. It doesn’t mean your photographer did a bad job.  It just means that the way they choose to shoot will likely have you look the most flattering possible with the available light they’re using! I prefer to not lug lighting around when I’m shooting, it’s a personal preference… so you’ll get white skies in some of your images… but that means the light on you, will look good 🙂 Want to learn more about photography? I’m glad to offer one on one sessions with you!  
September 4, 2014

Wedding | Guest

This fall we have had an interesting thing happen…. we’ve been invited to attend FIVE weddings. Part of me is really sad I won’t get to photograph these events (but you know I’ll have a camera… I cannot resist!) but part of me is freaking thrilled to kick off my photographer hat, throw on a party dress (already bought 2 new ones!) and a pair of heels, drink champagne and have a blast! These weddings kick off this weekend in Raleigh at my little cousin’s wedding. I shot her bridal portrait and cannot wait to see it on display at the reception! Next weekend we are hopping a plane to Tulsa, Oklahoma and witnessing one of Jeremy’s childhood friends marry his sweetheart….. Then the fete’s keep rolling through the fall. A few tips on being a gracious wedding guest: 1. RESPOND TO  YOUR FREAKIN’ RSVP. This is so annoying to track down people you invited to see if they are attending. The postage is pre-paid, so mail the stupid thing back! 2. Check the envelope to see who exactly is invited. If you are a parent, but your children’s names do not appear on the envelope, they are not invited. Don’t be sour about it, instead take it as a great opportunity to have a night out, alone with your hunny. 3. Wear appropriate clothing. It never fails that I show up to photograph a wedding and there she is… the girl in the ill fitting dress… it’s always too short, too low-cut, or too tight. There’s usually a girl in the wrong shoes too… if it’s an outdoor ceremony, take note… and don’t wear your best spike heels. Wedges or chunky heels will be your friend in grass. And for the love of all things appropriate… don’t wear a white dress! You’d be alarmed at how many times I see someone in white that isn’t the bride! If you insist on wearing shoes that will be uncomfortable, bring a pair of flip flops in your purse. Too many times I see glasses get dropped on the dance floor, and girls have to put those painful shoes back on that they kicked off post cake-cutting. 4. Don’t linger around during family formal photos. As a photographer, we really don’t mind if you snap a photo or two, but please don’t stall everyone’s least favorite part of the day by duplicating every shot we take. Remember, there are usually cocktails you are missing, and you are prolonging the bridal party from getting one too! 5. Don’t take an iPad to a wedding. Ever. (unless it’s to keep your child entertained during quiet times, like the ceremony….. and if you must take it, NEVER lift it over your head during the ceremony or out in the aisle to take a photo with it….  you look like a complete fool) 6. Arrive to the ceremony early. It’s customary to arrive 15-30 minutes early…. don’t get caught running into the ceremony as the bride and her dad are trying to get set to walk down the aisle. It’s awkward. 7. Give a gift. Even if you cannot attend, it’s appropriate that you give a gift. If it’s something you think the couple should take on their honeymoon, you may want to gift it early so they know to open it before they leave. We got lucky and had a day between our wedding and honeymoon, we used that time to open our gifts and there were several Visa/AmEx gift cards we took on our trip. It is proper etiquette to actually send the gift to the couple’s home instead of bringing it to the wedding, but I think it’s OK to do either.   Have fun!